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Home Is A Strange Country Chapter Forty Five

 

FORTY FIVE
17
th September 1912 – Neutral Bay

Willie and Grace hurried home from work, and burst into the house to ask George about his meeting during that afternoon with the Children’s Board. Once again the meeting of the three of them was carried out around the kitchen table with the brown teapot in a central position, almost as a focal point for them to concentrate upon during their conversation. The sun was shining in through the kitchen window and Clyda was once again was playing in the back garden with the younger of the two girls from next door. The routine was as though nothing had disturbed them during the past few days.

This time George did not prolong the anticipation of the other two in giving them the news of his meeting with Mr Green from the State Children’s Relief Board at Richmond Terrace on the Domain. The journey to the office had been easy, a ferry from Neutral Bay to Circular Quay, and then a short walk from the quayside, climbing up the hill to the Domain with its clutch of imposing government and state buildings.

The meeting had been quite short, George had thought in retrospect, no more than thirty minutes. During it Mr Green told George of the state’s obligation to not only the child, but also the estate of Florence. The state had a duty of care over a child left in these circumstances, and there were guidelines and procedures which the state would follow under the dictate of Mr Green and his subordinates. He went on to tell George that in the absence of any legal guardian, he would have custody and care of the child, in view of George’s relationship with Florence, and that he would be paid by the state a weekly stipend for the care of the child. In return George would have to clothe and feed the child, an obligation which Mr Green had no doubt George would fulfil. It was obvious to George, that the letter from Mr Stephens to the State children’s Board had contained more information than George had been made aware of, but from the reaction of Mr Green, the information had been positive and very much in favour of George taking care of the child. Mr Green advised that George should, as a matter of some urgency, write to the parents Florence to tell them the sad news of their daughter’s death. Any further correspondence between the family and his office would be best taken care of by the Intestate Office, who would have legal responsibility for the disposal of the estate. Mr Stephens would be in the best position to provide not only the legal position, but would also have the authority to do whatever was required to be done. Mr Green was at pains to point out that his department’s responsibility lay with ensuring that the child was taken care of properly. At this point he dropped a bomb into George’s lap as he sat in front of him across the wide desk in his office.

'Do not be under any illusion Mr Kent,' he began. 'The state will not wish you to take care of this child indefinitely.' He paused to let George assimilate what he had said then continued, 'So in time, and not too much time either, we would be looking at the child being taken into official care by a foster parent here in Sydney.' George had sat in silence whilst Mr Green had spoken, but when he paused in his speech George blurted out,

'That can't be right Mr Green. She's lived with me for most of her life, she thinks of me as her father, just as she considered Florence her mother. You can't do this to her. This is her home and I am her father.' He paused to draw a quick breath and continued. 'How am I going to tell her she will be leaving the only place she has ever known and going to live with people she has never met, who she doesn’t know and to a place she has never known? This is just cruel on her.' Mr Green sat back in his chair and placed his hands flat on the desk, slowly moving one piece of paper and then another. He looked up at George across the desk across from him, then down at the papers again.

'I’m sorry Mr Kent,' he said. 'I do understand what you are saying, and if I am completely honest, I feel you have a justification for what you say, but I am simply telling you what the law is and how the state is obliged to act in these circumstances.'

'Is there nothing I can do to make you change your mind? This can’t be right.' George said. Mr Green sighed and touched the papers lightly with the tips of his fingers again before replying,

'I’m sorry Mr Kent, I feel that it would be wrong of me to give you any false hopes in that respect. There is nothing to be done. The child must be placed in the care of foster parents. I will be writing to you in the near future as to the final disposition of the child, but I hope it will not be too long. That would not be right for you or for the child.' He looked George in the eye and said, 'I am sorry Mr Kent, very sorry. I can understand what your feelings must be at this time, but there is nothing more to be done.'

George had reluctantly accepted the information. As he left the office for the journey home, his mind was awash with thoughts and ploys to keep Clyda with him, though by the time he had arrive home the only certainty in his mind was that he knew too little to be able to fight the decision of the state.

Willie and Grace listened in silence to George recounting the what had happened, and for a few moments none of them spoke, all quietly digesting the facts they had been given. It was Grace who eventually broke the silence. 'That’s not good news then isn’t it?' she said quietly. Neither George nor Willie replied immediately, then George looked sideways towards her and said,

'You're right, not good news. But what am I going to do in the future?'

All of them had, during the past few days, been completely focussed on keeping the child safe with them and their thoughts to the future, and the life which George still had to lead with the little girl in his life. After all, he was only in his early thirties and much of his life lay ahead of him. In time he would have to make decisions on where he lived, would the business partnership with Willie succeed? A thought which had been in both their minds in recent times had been the success and growth of the business. The biggest boatyard competitor they had, Joyce’s Boatyard, was always in their minds as they tried to gain business on a daily basis. Joyce's yard was in a much better position to attract customers who came to Neutral Bay as it was close to the wharf where the ferry came in from Circular Quay. Would their business survive or would they be forced to close it, and if so what would George then do to earn a living? Before, when he had lived in the countryside of Victoria, earning a living had never been a problem for him. There was plenty of work for a labourer, skilled or unskilled. Being a single man, he had always been able to find work on the farms or the forests, or even with his own father as a joiner. For the past forty eight hours his mind had been exercised with the prospect of taking care of and providing for Clyda, but now that he had to consider the prospect of having to take care of, and producing a living for Clyda, this was something else. Although Mr Green had promised George that he would be paid the sum of ten shilling a week for her board and upkeep, this could not last indefinitely. Whilst it would help to defray the cost of providing for the child, he knew that in time he would have to supplement his income in some other way to provide for her clothing and other unforeseen expenditure. And all this would in time come to an end when the child was taken from him; but he had no thoughts of when this would be. Would he have the time to secrete the child away, perhaps back to his home town in Alexandra well hidden from the law?

There was one other thing George had to do, as a matter of urgency, and before he could turn his mind to finding a solution to the latest problem which had found its way to his doorstep, and that was to write a letter to the parents of Florence to tell them the news of their daughter’s death.

Later that evening when he had had bathed and put Clyda to bed, George sat down at the bare kitchen table, with a few sheets of quality paper he had bought on his way home from the meeting at the Domain that day. Willie and Grace left George alone so he could work on the letter uninterrupted, leaving him in the house by himself. He sat at the table as the last of the evening sunshine still poured into the room from the window at the end of the room. He touched the sheets of paper in front of him lightly with his fingers, and moved them from one area of the table to another as he tried to formulate the words in his mind before committing those words to the paper. Several times he glanced up from the table to the window over the kitchen sink, unable to find the correct words. Finally, after one attempt had been discarded, he wrote a second version which he eventually folded and placed in an envelope. Before he sealed the envelope Willie and Grace arrived home.

'Finished it?' Grace asked him.

'Yes' he replied, holding up the unsealed envelope. 'Would you read it please, just to see if I have put everything in it? Don’t want to miss anything out, but don’t want to give too much away.' He paused and with a rueful smile added, 'Not that there is anything they shouldn’t know, but you know what I mean.' Grace looked at him and nodded her head in agreement then sat down alongside him and took the envelope. She extracted the single page of paper from the envelope and flattened it on the table in front of her.

'Have you included that Flo was expecting?' she asked. George looked across the table at her and slowly shook his head.

'No I didn’t. Because of the problems she had with her parents when she went to see them with Clyda that last time, they weren't too happy I thought that it was better not to mention anything. No doubt in time they will find out, but not from me.' He sat back in the chair and took his pipe from a pocket in his trousers and started to cut himself some tobacco from a plug in the same pocket. Grinding it between his hands he continued thoughtfully,

'This is going to come as a terrible shock for them, and I don’t think that at this time it would be the right thing to do to tell them she died as a result of becoming pregnant. It is going to be hard enough for Clyda when she gets back there as it is, without them thinking the worst about their daughter as well. If it comes out that Flo was expecting, well, I’ll deal with that if it happens.' He filled the tobacco from his hand into his pipe and took a match from a box on the table and struck it, lighting the tobacco, and blowing clouds of smoke into the kitchen. The sunlight flooded into the room and struck the smoke causing lines of multi-coloured streaks to bring a false sense of gaiety to the room.

George had written on both sides of the paper and then folded it in two before placing it in the envelope. At her first glance she recognised the well educated hand of George, it was neat, strong and without mistakes. She settled back and read the letter three times before giving him her verdict.


6 Phillip Street
Neutral Bay

Nr Sydney

Sept 17th


Dear Mr Hadfield

It is with the deepest sympathy that I have to tell you that your daughter Florence passed away on Monday last Sept 9th at 11.30pm in the North Shore Hospital Nr Sydney. She had been feeling far from well for some time but refused to have the doctor. When I at last prevailed upon her to see Dr Bligh he came at 8.30pm on the 2nd Sept. & ordered her immediate removal to the Hospital which order I carried out. She was suffering from a complaint of the kidneys with complications and after two operations she gradually sunk. I buried her at Gore Hill Cemetery grave No. 193 Church of England. There is a small sum of money in the Gov Savings bank which has been handed over to the state to collect together with her personal belongings. They contemplate sending her little child Clyda to you in England and are communicating with her solicitor Mr Roxburgh. Clyda at present is staying under my care and will continue to do so until her departure and she is a dear little girl. I will write you again to advise you the vessel she will travel by & all particulars when I get the same from the Government.

I can assure you everything possible was done to save your daughter, but owing to her previous operations two years ago her strength failed.

Again expressing my deepest sorrow in your sad bereavement.

Yours truly

George Kent


Grace settled back in her chair and handed the letter over to Willie for him to read then took up her cup from the table and drank from it whilst contemplating what George had written. 'It’s a good letter George,' she eventually pronounced, nodding her head to confirm her words. 'It tells them what happened and yet does not give them the whole story. That would be too cruel for them to take in at the same time. Perhaps in time they will hear the full story, but it won’t come from you or Willie and me. Perhaps they will never know. If the child has to go back to England in time she won’t know any of the details of her mother’s death, so there will be nobody who can tell them.' George nodded his head in agreement. Grace carried on, 'It might not come to that anyway. If the state will let you keep the child then the problem then is how are you going to be able to look after her?' George considered this for a moment, pulling hard on his pipe.

'I don’t know the answer to that one at the moment. It needs some thinking about doesn’t it?' Willie drew alongside Grace seated at the table.

'Whatever you do decide on George you can rely on Grace and me to give you whatever help you need. If it’s a matter of taking time off work to take care of the child then we can work that out, but I am sure Iris would take on the job at the drop of a hat. She already treats Clyda as one of her own kids, so leaving her with Iris during the day shouldn’t present a problem for her.' He paused and a thought suddenly struck him. 'Hang on a minute. That bloke you went to see said something about you getting a weekly allowance to take care of her didn’t he? WellHang onHn maybe if it comes to it you can offer Iris some of it to look after her.' George assimilated the thought for a second before smiling and nodding his head in agreement.

'Yes, of course' he said. 'I’m sure she would take care of her, with or without any payment. Good idea Willie, good idea.' He rose from the table and for the first time since the meeting earlier that day he smiled a genuine smile of relief and happiness. It seemed that the problem was being solved.

Home Is A Strange Country Chapter Forty Six

 

FORTY SIX
9
th December 1912

Summer was fast approaching and the sun was beating down on Sydney, Christmas was close and people across the city were making preparations for family parties. Though it was still early in the morning the sun was well over the horizon and burning hard on Neutral Bay. A breeze coming in from the sea did little or nothing to provide any form of cooling respite from the temperature as it rose steadily. The bedroom door was thrown open and Clyda came running from the bedroom she shared with George to find him seated at the kitchen table drinking a cup of tea and eating a slice of toast for his breakfast. She rushed to him and threw her arms around his knees.

'Pa!' she exclaimed. 'It’s my birthday!' George smiled down at her and stroked the almost black hair on her head, brushing it from her eyes.

'Is it?' he asked. 'I thought it was later on in the month. Are you sure it’s today?' Clyda punching him gently on the side of his knee and grinned up at him.

'Pa! You know very well it is today. I'm four!' Her laughing face glanced around the room expectantly looking to find a present she knew he must have hidden somewhere. There was nothing evident, no bulky or even small parcel wrapped in brightly coloured paper. She searched with her eyes whilst keeping close to George.

'Do you want a drink love?' George asked.

'No Pa. I just want my present,' she replied, grinning at him. George rose from the chair and left the room returning a few seconds later with a flat parcel in his hand.

'Do I get a kiss for this then?' he asked, holding out the parcel for Clyda to take from him. The girl skipped to him and threw her arms up in the air, George collected her from the floor and she planted a kiss on his lips. 'Happy Birthday Clyda' he said. 'Thanks Pa,' she said, taking the parcel from his hand and proceeding to carefully unwrap it on top of the table. It was a book of stories for girls. George was sad to see her face drop a little as Clyda realised what it was, and the fact that it wasn’t a doll as she had wished for. Nonetheless she took up the book in her hands and looked seriously at the cover before opening it. Glancing up at George she beamed a smile at him and said

'Thanks Pa, it’s lovely.'

George took his seat back at the table and finished off his toast and tea, being joined by Willie and Grace from their bedroom. George nodded in the direction of Clyda,


'Seems that it isn’t what she wanted, but she appears happy enough' he said quietly. Grace walked over to the girl and bent to examine the book making appreciative noises as she was shown it’s contents of stories and pictures. George poured two cups and tea and placed one of them in front of the opposite chair from him at the table. Willie sat down and sipped from it.

'So what we going to do about that letter George?' he asked. George glanced sideways at the child as she became engrossed once more with the book on her lap.

'I think I’m going to have to go and see Mr Green from the Children’s Board. It’s not as though we can keep her now that Flo’s mother wants the child back in England.' He sighed deeply and Willie nodded his head in agreement.

'You’re right George. There’s nothing we can do now that she has said they want the child back. I wonder how they are going to get her back there. It’s not as though they can just stick her onboard a ship for England by herself, can they? They’re going to have to find someone to go with her, and I bet that’s going to cost.' Willie sat back in his chair and sipped again from his cup. Grace lifted her head from the book she was pretending to examine with Clyda.

'I’m sure it will get sorted out alright' she said. 'It’s not as though this is the first time they will have had to solve problems like this, is it?' George nodded in agreement.

'I will call in to see him today sometime, I have to go into Sydney, so might as well kill two birds with one stone.'

'Pa, you’re not going to be killing any birds are you?' said a small voice from the kitchen floor. George grinned.

'Not this time love, not this time,' he said. He paused to think it through for a moment. 'No,' he said, 'I think it might be better if I wrote to him. That way it will give him more time to decide what to do, and maybe things will take their time in happening.' The two men looked together at Grace and their nodding heads showed their agreement with the course of action. George stood from the table, pushing the chair back against the wall. 'Right young lady' he said, 'Time for you to go to play with Mrs Shepherd.'

'Pa, it’s not Mrs Shepherd I go to play with, she only gives me my dinner, it’s her children I play with. You are so silly,' she said. The three adults exchanged glances, acknowledging that the young girl had probably understood all they had tried to say in code.

Willie coughed nervously and nodded towards Clyda when George and Grace looked in his direction.

'There are a couple of things I need to sort out with you Georgie,' he finally said, and inclined his head towards the front door. George nodded silently and rose from his chair, heading towards the front door. He turned and spoke to Grace,

'Can you pop her next door for me Grace? I’m just having a chat with Willie.' Grace nodded her head, understanding that George needed Clyda to be distracted, and continued to engross herself with the book between Clyda and herself. She turned pages and talked to Clyda about the pictures on the pages, all the time trying to distract her from George and Willie heading to the door.

George walked through the front door and stood on the garden path a few feet from the door as Willie came through. The two men stood on the path, Willie had an air about him which George did not recognise.

'What’s the matter Willie' he asked, 'You don’t look too happy about something.' Willie looked down at his feet and scuffed the small gravel stones on the path with the toe of his shoe. There was silence for a few moments until he finally lifted his head and looked George in the face.

'I wrote to the Boarding Department last week George.' He said. 'I told them we were leaving this address and could they take the child away. I told them we had had a letter from Flo’s mother and that the woman wanted Clyda back in England with them.' His eyes dropped to the path again. 'I’m sorry George, but I knew it would be too hard a thing for you to do, and yet the woman wants her granddaughter back with her. It’s only normal and natural she wants her, and there’s nothing we can do to keep her. I’m sorry George I did it for your good, as well as the child.' Willie looked at George, expecting him to explode in anger at having taken the initiative in writing the letter. George stared quietly down at the path between their feet, then across at the hedge running between the house and next doors before he spoke.

'Alright Willie,' he said in quiet resignation. 'You probably did the right thing. I’ve been putting it off since that letter arrived from England.' He looked up into his friend’s eyes. 'Thanks Willie, you’ve taken a lot off my mind. It’s not going to be easy saying goodbye to the child, but we knew it was going to happen sometime or other, it was only a matter of time I suppose.' He gave Willie a thin smile. 'Thanks Willie' he said once more lifting his head to look up at the clear blue sky. 'Time we were getting off to work isn’t it?' Willie nodded his head in agreement and the two of them went back into the house, where Grace turned to them as they entered the room.

'Everything alright Willie?' she asked. Willie nodded his head.

'Just told George about the letter. He’s happy with it.' Grace stood to her feet and took George’s hand in hers.

'I’m sorry we didn’t tell you George, but it had to be done, what with that letter arriving last week.' George nodded his head silently and turned to collect Clyda in his arms from the floor.

'Pa!' she squealed, in mock surprise. George smiled into her eyes and hugged her to him before putting her back on the floor.

'Get your toys for Mrs Shepherd, Clyda. Not too many though. Can’t have you cluttering her house up like you do with ours.'

'Oh Pa, I don’t' the child chattered back and skipped off into their bedroom to gather a doll made from wood and fabric before coming back into the living room to take George’s hand in hers. George turned to Willie and said,

'I’ll catch up with you in a minute Willie. I need to have a quick word with Iris about what we’ve just been talking about. Shouldn’t be long.'

'Take your time George. No hurry.' He replied.

That day was like many others which Clyda had experienced.

She played in the garden with the two girls from next door, then on the floor in the kitchen, getting in Mrs Shepherd’s way until she shooed them off. Then they moved into the living room, and finally Iris fed them and put them together in one bed after they had eaten, so they could have a nap, as was the norm. During the afternoon Iris took all three girls up to the top of Phillip Street to the small disused quarry which had supplied some of the stone for the houses in the area of Neutral Bay, before it finally had becoming worked out and abandoned. It was a favourite playground for all the children in the neighbourhood, provided they were accompanied by a parent or elder sibling. All the children knew it and loved to play there, hiding in the broken rocks and pulling up the long stemmed weeds which had flourished there.

At the end of the day George bathed her and dressed her in a long nightdress before tucking her into her side of their bed. He sat by her side and read her a story from her birthday present, and within minutes of starting to read her eyes closed and she fell peacefully asleep. George placed the book down quietly on the floor by her side of the bed and crept from the room into the living room, where Grace and Willie were seated in armchairs. Grace was reading a book and Willie that days’ edition of the Sydney Morning Herald which had lain untouched since its delivery earlier that day. George settled himself into one of the two remaining armchairs and took up his pipe, cleaning it and recharging it before lighting it. When it was creating large clouds of smoke he glanced over to the fourth chair which was empty. That had been the one which Florence had occupied.

Home Is A Strange Country Chapter Forty Seven

 

FORTY SEVEN

13th December 1912 – Neutral Bay


On Friday of that week George sat down at the kitchen table after he had put the child to bed. Outside in the garden the last of the evening sunlight was casting dappled shadows on the small grassy area they called a lawn, shining through the branches of the trees in next doors garden. The sky was slowly changing in colour from the palest Australian blue to light pink, then darker red and finally a deep -purple, the sparse clouds high and deeper in colour than the sky. As though to signal the end of another day the flock of white Cockatoos which called and bickered all day long in the trees of the neighbourhood finally rose as one in a large mass of feathers and took off for the high Blue gum trees growing in the disused quarry at the top of the street and settled quietly for the night. From somewhere close came the soft musical call of a Magpie. At last the colour drained from the sky leaving it a deep and dark black lit only by silver stars coming to the foreground one by one.

With a long deep sigh he finally picked up his pen from the table at the side of the sheets of notepaper on the table. He unscrewed the top and started to write the letter he had been so dreading having to compose. Since Clyda’s birthday earlier that week the three of them in the house on Phillip Street had talked amiably at first, and then with increasing frustration, about their lives and the child, and then the problem of caring for the child on a long term basis. The Boarding Out Department had told George that they were content for the time being with the arrangement for him and William and Grace to care for the child, but, Mr Stephens had warned, 'The situation will have to be examined again in due course', whatever that implied.

Since the letter from Clyda's grandfather, Mr Hadfield, had arrived, and the department had been made aware of it, there had been silence from that quarter. Whether this was an indication that the department was still considering what course of action they should take, or whether it was simply that the department was slow in coming to a decision was unclear. Whatever the reason the lack of communication from Mr Stephens had prompted an almost continuous nightly discussion between them as to the future of the child, their business partnership and the future in general. Nothing had been settled, the conversations went on in a circular fashion resolving nothing, until the three of them had finally decided that the lack of information, the situation in general and the uncertainty had to be addressed by them. The letter had finally prompted them to decide that the child must be returned to the department for them to care for her until she could be returned to her grandparents in England, whenever that would be, and by whatever method they chose to follow. The fact that the child was still with them was stopping them developing their business, and was also placing a strain on the relationship between William and Grace. In effect the indecision forced on them by the board was creating a hold on all their lives. By not making a decision the Boarding Out department were placing the burden of the child’s future on them, and they had reluctantly come to the decision that the child would have to be returned to the department sooner than later so that they could get on with their lives. None of them wanted to return her, but it was clear from the letter that the grandparents wanted the child back, and they were legally entitled to have the child returned, so any delay on the part of the department in making a decision was doing nothing more than putting a brake on the lives of George, William and Grace. They would make the decision for the department and return the child to them until such times as they made their decision as to how the child was returned.

George completed the letter to the Curator of Intestate Estates and placed it in an envelope. Rather than writing to the Boarding Out department, they had all felt that in writing to the office dealing with Florence’s estate more pressure, and quicker pressure, would be placed on the department to come to a decision as to the disposition of the child. He left it on the kitchen table for William and Grace to read when they returned later that evening.


6 Phillip Street

Neutral Bay

Sydney

13th December 1912

The Curator


Dear Sir

Re: Florence Lowe (decd)

I shall be glad if you would forward me cheque for £10.00, this being for 20 weeks at 10/- per week, keep & clothing etc of the child Clyda Elsie.

The Boarding Out Officer has permission to take her away next week.

Yours faithfully

George Kent


George was still seated at the kitchen table when William and Grace returned, closing the front door to the house behind them quietly, so as not to disturb the child they knew was sleeping in the bedroom.

'Done the letter.' George said, handing the unsealed envelope to William. William sat down at the table and took the single sheet from the envelope and read it. He looked up at George and said,

'Bit brutal isn’t it George?' George nodded his head as William handed over the letter to Grace.

'Didn’t feel much like being polite to them.' He said. 'They promised me ten shillings a week to care for her and then have left us holding onto the poor kid without any word of what they are going to do. Either they don’t want to do anything about her or they are just too lazy to get off their backsides and do anything. I thought this might get them to move themselves a bit quicker than another letter to the Boarding out office.' William nodded in agreement,

'You’re right George. They might reply to this a bit quicker than if we just talked to them. They seem to be a bit unwilling to get things in motion don’t they?'

Grace took up the letter and read it, then replaced it in the envelope and dropped it by George’s side on the table.

'Let’s hope things start moving soon. It’s not only not right for the child, but it’s causing us a lot of heartache as well isn’t it? After all, they’ve done nothing since Willie wrote to them last month, even though he offered to put them in touch with a ship's captain to take the child back. They need a good talking to.' The two men nodded in agreement of what they all felt to be correct.

William had written to the curator of Intestate Estates some three weeks before to inform him of the arrival of the letter from Mr Hadfield, with its request that George make provision to return Clyda to them in Bolton. Other than an acknowledgment of the letter, nothing seemed to have been done since then to make any provision for Clyda to be sent back to England. There was a pause for a few moments as the three of them considered what effect this letter would have and what the future would hold for them and Clyda. Finally George rose from the table.

'I’ll post it tomorrow' he said. 'I’m off to my bed now.' The others bade George goodnight and they too left for their room, leaving the small house quiet and in darkness.

Home Is A Strange Country Chapter Forty Eight

 

FORTY EIGHT
Sydney 1912

Christmas came and Christmas went, followed by the New Year celebrations. The house on Phillip Street was a place of mixed emotions. With Christmas Day falling that year on a Wednesday, a lot of the workforce in the area of Neutral Bay and the north shore of Sydney also took off Boxing Day, then Friday, to make a good five day break for George and William running the boatshed on Neutral Bay. The long break created a good business opportunity for them both, with the small and medium sized rowing and motor boats they hired out, being taken for a few hours, half a day and in some instances a full day for a large family. Business was good during this period, but the problem of the child did not resolve itself, and, if anything, played more on their minds as the days wore on.

Communication with the Boarding Out department and the Intestate Estate office had been infrequent. To George it felt that they were being ignored or left out of the proceedings of the two departments, and over the end of year period in particular, nothing was heard from either of them. George and William worked hard at the boatyard and made some inroads into building up the business, despite the competition from Joyce’s Boatyard. Grace continued to work at the shop in Neutral Bay, and Clyda continued to be looked after by the neighbour, Iris. Then, in early March a letter arrived at the offices of Curator of Intestate Estates from Mrs Hadfield in Lancashire, dated 10th February 1913. The letter had taken some five weeks to reach the office, travelling by the fortnightly Royal Mail Service from England. In it she pleads for help in returning the child to her grandparents, she has no money and they can expect none from her daughter’s husband who has contributed nothing to the child's upbringing in the past. Receiving the letter must have galvanised the department into action, as the following letter was sent to Mrs Hadfield soon after he received it in Sydney.


19th March 1913

Re: Estate of Florence Lowe deceased

Madam,


I am in receipt of your letter of the 10th ult. and have to state that I will use my best endeavours to have the deceased’s daughter sent to you as soon as practicable. I might, however, mention that no portion of the deceased’s can be used for such purpose without the consent of the deceased’s husband.

Yours obediently

Acting Curator

Mrs H Hadfield

3 Latham Street

Blackburn Road

BOLTON, LANCASHIRE

ENGLAND

Home Is A Strange Country Chapter Forty Nine

 

FORTY NINE
Boarding Out 1913

Mrs Gatehouse of 2 Crown Street in Woolloomooloo was the first woman who was offered the opportunity to take care of Clyda in her home.

The Boarding Out Service was charged with ensuring that children in her position were found suitable homes to be fostered in, for an indefinite period of time. Under the remit of the department, it would have been possible that Clyda would stay in the home until she was twenty one years of age, until she reached her majority. However, in Mrs Gatehouse’s case this was not so. Although she had been responsible to the service for caring for Clyda, she apparently was unable to do so. After only a few weeks she was taken from Mrs Gatehouse's home in August of 1913 and handed over to the care of Mrs Abraham of a house called Armargh, Rocky Point Road, Armcliffe close to Botany Bay. During that month Clyda was again removed and placed in the children’s home at Ormond House in Sydney. At this time long overdue efforts were started to find a person who would be prepared to take Clyda back to England.

On 31st August 1912 Mr Stephens of the Intestate Estate office received a bill from a press agency in Sydney, Gordon and Gotch (Sydney) Ltd for the sum of eighteen shillings. The invoice from the agency was for the placing of a notice in the Sydney Morning Herald on 25th July and the World News on 2nd August in relation to Clyda.


The Worlds News, August 2, 1913.

Re estate of FLORENCE LOWE deceased

Would some person about to proceed to England (White Star Line preferred) kindly communicate with the undersigned with a view to taking charge of a little girl, aged 5 years, on the voyage? Premium. R.C. Monday Acting Curator of Intestate Estates, Queens Square, Sydney.


Within a short time the advertisement realised a shoal of hopeful fish nibbling at the enticing bait, as some of them obviously saw it, to take the child back to England. One of the letters received by the Intestate Estate Office was from a Miss Violet Tarling. In her initial response to the advertisement she wrote:



c/o Mrs W G Layton

Mundara

Homebush Rd

Strathfield

Sydney

August 3rd 1913


Dear Sir

Re; Advert of the Worlds News caring for a little girl aged five, whilst on the voyage to England. I beg to apply for the responsible position, as I am shortly returning to England owing to family reasons.

I dearly love little children, and it would be company for myself to take care of the little child.

I am twenty four years of age and am a good sailor, can give best of references if required.

Trusting you will favour me with a reply.

Believe me yours

Faithfully

(Miss) Violet Tarling


Three days later the acting Curator wrote to Miss Tarling asking her to attend his office at her earliest convenience, which she obviously did. There is no indication of what sort of qualifications the Curator was looking for, but Miss Tarling was almost the same age as Florence had been when she had died. Perhaps that was a consideration.

Some of the applicants for the job of accompanying the child were bold enough to suggest a sum of money to be paid them for the task of taking the girl back home, some offering to do the job for fifty pounds, others felt it necessary to tell the curator their height, others told of their connections in society and their professions. It appears that Violet got the job because she was honest and youthful, but probably because she was also experienced as a children's nurse.

At the same time as arrangements were being made by the Curator of Intestate Estates for the transport of Clyda back to England, the Assistant Curator, Mr Stephens, was in postal communication with his opposite number, Mr Turner, in the Central Depot for State Children at Ormond House. They exchanged letters to and fro regarding the proposed date of departure of Clyda, and the purchase of clothing for the child on the journey.

In the end a long list of clothing was purchased from Anthony Horden and Sons Ltd, Universal Providers of the New Palace Emporium, Brickfield Hill, Sydney. The account was sent directly to the Intestate Estates office who in turn sent it to Mr A W Green, the Boarding Out Officer in Sydney. The account was made out as follows.


To maintenance of and clothing supplied to Clyda Elsie Lowe


To Maintenance to 16th September 1913 £9.15.0

Clothing etc

Per A Horden & Sons.

Trunk 18/6d

1 doz handkerchiefs 2/6d

1 tunic 6/11d

1 coat 7/11d

1 skirt 7/3d

1 jersey 3/11d

1 frock 2/6d

1 hat 1/6d

1 hood 2/-

Sub Total £3.1.0d


Per Ormond House

2 pair combinations 7/-

2 do 13/-

2 petticoats 4/4d

1 pr bloomers 4/4d

1 stay bodice 1/1d

4 prs knickers 3/9d

4 blue pinafores 5/4d

4 pr shoes 15/-

12 prs socks 6/-

2 yards ribbon 11d

Brush and comb 2/9d

3 dolls 3/9d

1 book 10/-

Sub total £3.18.5d

Total £16.16.1d



On 8th September 1913 Mr Russell Roxburgh, solicitor for the estate of Florence sent a cheque for £50.00 by post to the Curator of Intestate Estates. The cheque was to pay for the ticket for Clyda to be sent back to England by the Aberdeen liner 'Marathon', due to sail from Sydney on the 20th of that month in the company of Miss Tarling. A one way ticket was purchased from the Aberdeen Line agent in Sydney, Dalgety and Company. Where the £50.00 came from is unknown, simply that Mr Roxburgh wrote the letter enclosing the cheque on 10th September 1913. Did George and William and Grace find the money from somewhere and pay it to the solicitor to put to an end the distress of the child being moved from one foster home to another, and finally to the Ormond House State Children’s Home, or did the circumstances soften the heart of Mr Roxburgh to pay the money himself?

At the same time, the decision had by then been made to request Violet Tarling to take Clyda to England, for which service she would be paid the sum of £15.00. Half of it would be paid at the onset of the voyage, the second part at the offices of the Bank of New South Wales in Threadneedle Street in London on delivery of the child, where her signature, having been compared with a specimen signature, already sent ahead for this purpose. The agreement was reached during the first week of August that year when Violet Tarling was asked to visit the office of the curator, when she was appointed to her task, and a sum agreed for her efforts. Sadly the two offices involved in the care and custody of Clyda seemed almost incapable of corresponding with each other with any degree of urgency. At the end of August the boarding Out office was still writing to the Intestate Estates office asking if anyone had been appointed to take the child to England.

After Florence had died in September 1912, Clyda lived at Phillip Street with George Kent, being moved from there in March 1913 to the first of two foster carers. By August that year the child had been in the care of Mrs Gatehouse in Woolloomooloo near to Finger Point, then on to Mrs Abraham near Botany Bay, and finally she was moved into Ormond House at Paddington. It was only then that the Boarding Out Department became possessed of any sense of urgency to return to the child to her grandparents in England. It would be wrong to say that no one cared for the welfare of the child, quite the reverse. It was simply that she did not present a problem to the various bodies concerned, until such times as the office of Intestate Estates started to galvanise the others into action, and then arrangements were hurriedly made to effect her passage to England.




Home Is A Strange Country Chapter Fifty

 

FIFTY
20
th September 1913 Millers Point, Sydney.




Some time prior to the sailing time for the SS Marathon at noon on Saturday 20th September 1913, Clyda was delivered to the Dalghety Wharf at Millers Point in Sydney to be there collected by Miss Tarling. The child had one suitcase in her possession and a small trunk. Clyda was almost five years old. The trunk accompanying her contained the bulk of the clothing bought for her by the State children’s Department, and the suitcase contained her three dolls and the book. It must have been a fraught time for both the twenty five year old nurse and the five year old child. Certainly a new, and probably terrifying, experience for the child. She had been uprooted three times in the past year from her life in Neutral Bay and lived in strange homes with strange people, never again to see her ‘Pa’, George Kent.

It would be wrong to paint a picture of a child abandoned and alone in the world once her mother had died. Quite the contrary. She was cared for by people who she knew and loved for most of the time, until the time when she was placed in the hands of strangers, paid for by the government of New South Wales. At length she was then placed in a ‘school’ as she called it. Ormond House in Paddington was a ‘clearing station’ for children en route from one foster home to another, or in Clyda’s case, en route for her grandparents home in England. Perhaps we can conjecture what her state of mind was at that time of great upheaval in her life, but it seems evident from her future attitude to life and her children, that there was little or no lasting effect. Young children accept whatever life pushes their way, every experience is a new one and she had little or nothing to compare those experiences with. She grew to be a loving person and a loving wife and mother who smiled a lot despite the trials her future life threw at her.

From the letters which Miss Tarling wrote to Mr Stephens of the Intestate Estates Office, it seems the journey back to England was not all ‘plain sailing’. Sometimes the weather was foul and both suffered from sea sickness. There is no doubt Miss Tarling would have had a full time job on her hands in looking after and entertaining a five year old, though by the end of the five week voyage one assumes they had at least becomes friends. From the few letters she wrote during the voyage there are many signs that Miss Tarling not only knew how to take care of the child, but enjoyed doing it. The single fact that the letters she wrote were on headed notepaper indicates that the couple enjoyed what comforts there were available on the journey.


Letter to Mr Stephens from onboard the Aberdeen Line ship, SS Marathon. Four days at sea.


Sept. 24th 1913

Mr Stephens

Dear Sir,

I have forwarded by post receipted cheque for £7-10-0 which I thank you same. I may also tell you that the little girl, Clyda Lowe is getting on beautifully still and seems much better and brighter than when leaving Sydney.

She was just a little seasick on Sunday night, it was dreadfully rough all day Sunday and Sunday night. But she is looking so well now, she says she does not want to go back to the nasty school again, because they pour cups of cold water on her head.

I have to smile at her she says such funny things at times.

Will let you know next port how she is progressing still. Believe me.

Yours truly

Violet Tarling



Postcard dated sometime in late September 1013


Mr Stephens. Dear Sir

Arrived Melbourne today Monday 2 o’clock staying until Thursday night, had rather a rough passage Sunday and at night. Clyda is getting along splendidly, having a lovely time she says, also myself. She is great on fruit and sweets. I have bought a good store for her. Having beautiful food so that makes things fine. Few passengers, so that makes it very nice and comfortable. Goodbye. Will write next port of call. Kindest. Violet Tarling.


By the 2nd October the ship had reached Freemantle, and Miss Tarling wrote to Mr Stephens again. It appears all was not as well as had previously been.


SS Marathon

Freemantle W.A.

Mr Stephens

Dear Sir

Am writing to let you know that Clyda Lowe is still getting on well and also looking well. I am simply astonished for her conduct for a child of her age she carries on shocking at times, she is so stubborn and selfish. The only thing I can quieten her with is telling her I am going to take her back to school. She is different in a second.

We arrived here at Freemantle yesterday October 1st at eleven in the morning and are staying until tonight, leaving at 9 o’clock.

It is simply pouring with rain. I think it an awful place here, Freemantle.

Yours truly

Violet Tarling


And that is it, the last letter or postcard from Miss Tarling on her voyage with a child who obviously was something of a handful at times. But is it hard to understand the child’s behaviour?

On Thursday 14th November 1913 the SS Marathon arrived at Tilbury docks in London and discharged it’s cargo, including Violet Tarling and Clyda Elsie Lowe. Waiting for her were the child's grandmother and grandfather, who took charge of her from Miss Tarling.

The following day Miss Tarling presented herself at the Bank of New South Wales at 29 Threadneedle Street in London and collected her well earned £7-10-0, that being the last instalment of her payment for escorting Clyda to England.

On January 14th 1914 Mr Stephens of the office of Intestate Estates in Queens Square Sydney wrote the following letter to the husband of Florence Lowe.


14th January 1914

Re: estate of FLORENCE LOWE deceased


Sir

I have to inform you that I am administering the estate of your late wife, who died in Sydney on the 9th September 1912, and after payment of claims and expenses there is £8-10-0 to the credit of her estate. I have to ask if you have any objection to this money being used deceased’s daughter, Clyda Lowe, if so you might complete the enclosed form of affidavit and return it to this office. Yours obediently
Public Trustee


Nothing was ever heard again from the husband of Florence Lowe by the Intestate Estates office, or her family in relation to the letter, the wife, or the child. TAF Lowe remarried in 1915 to a single lady younger than himself from Devonport, the daughter of a 'gentleman'. TAF described himself as a bachelor at the time of his marriage.

George Kent returned to Alexandra, the beautiful small town in Victoria some eighty miles north of Melbourne. For the remainder of his life he lived in Alexandra, Eildon and Thornton, earning his living as a joiner and then a rabbit catcher. On his retirement he continued to offer his valuable Coney catching services to the farmers in the area, selling some of rabbits he caught to the hotel in Thornton, where the cook there was always glad of the meat. George lived a peaceful life, quiet and a part of the community. A neighbour of his, Joyce Peters, told me in 2014, the heart warming story of her young daughter regularly taking her breakfast of boiled eggs and soldiers next door each morning to eat it with Georgie, as he was affectionately known. He continued to support the Alexandra football club where he had once been the captain, until his death on 8th August 1964 at the age of 88; some six years after the death of the young child he had cared for, and loved, in Sydney all those years before.




Home Is A Strange Country Synopsis

 

Florence is the only girl of a large working class family, and in 1901 she worked as a spinner in a cotton mill in Lancashire, England, and hated it. By the time she was 17 in 1905 she was married to a Royal Naval sailor from her home town, and moved to Plymouth to be with him. Soon after, he joined the Australia station, and was posted to Sydney. She followed him by herself in 1906, sailing there on a White Star liner. After two years her husband left her, returning to the UK, and in 1908 she herself returns to England. En route she discovers she is pregnant and in December that year, on her return to Sydney gives birth to a baby girl. The father of the child throws her out and she secures a job as housekeeper in a house in Neutral Bay, Sydney. The house is home to a married couple and a single man. The two men run a small boatyard on Neutral Bay and Florence starts a relationship with the single man, George Kent.

In 1912 Florence again finds herself pregnant, her daughter being almost five by this time. Sadly Florence dies in September that year, from complications relating to her pregnancy. George buries her in Sydney and undertakes to look after the daughter until late 1913 when the state, having placed her for a short time into care in Woolloomooloo, Sydney, sends her back to her grandparents in England in the company of a hired nurse.

George returns to his home in Alexandra, Victoria and in 1915 enlists in the Australian infantry at Broadmeadows camp outside Melbourne. He is sent to the Western Front in France and is injured on the Somme in December 1916. He is sent to England to recuperate, and decides to try and visit the child he cared for, who now lives back in Lancashire with her grandparents. He sees her but fails to make contact, and eventually returns to France and then is demobbed in Melbourne in early 1918. George moves back to Alexandra where he lived and worked as a rabbit trapper and then joiner. He dies in 1964, unmarried and without children. He is buried in the cemetery in that town.

Florence was my grandmother.